Everything You’ll Ever Need: You Can Find Within Yourself” that I bought last year and still I can relate to this year (now) I just read it over again. It was Albert Einstein who said, “We cannot solve our problems with the same level of thinking that created them.” Our distorted thinking is the cause of our problems, so we must transform them to create a better outcome. I admire the quote by psychotherapist David Richo who states, “To say yes to this given is to trust that the universe has a plan for us and that things are unfolding in this life just in time for us to grow into the beings we were meant to be. This is the Buddhist concept of karma as meaningful coincidence. Our own plans are based on our limited knowledge. The fact that things happen beyond our control and lead us to new vistas means that grace has come into play.” Everything happens for a reason, yet you may not be privy to the reasons until the entire picture is formed. Sometimes, you don’t realise it in this lifetime. Yet, take comfort in a greater intelligence guiding every facet of your life and the billions of people on this planet.

Most fears stem from expecting life to develop in a particular way. When it fails to materialise, we experience disappointment. One conscious moment of introspection can yield huge lifelong benefits; simply by breaking old patterns of disbelief, and courageously believing — knowing — that you are meant to be here, and that your life has meaning,” states author Robbie Vorhaus in One Less. One More.finding yourself, your journey of healing. This was meant to find you in your moments of pure joy and genuine happiness. This was I'm afraid I don't quite understand. Is it possible that this message was intended for someone else? You should never regret going after what makes your heart happy, even if it has ended in hurt. Instead, you should feel so beyond proud of yourself for being brave enough to chase what makes you feel alive. There are some people out there who are too afraid to chase their dreams who admire that strength in you. You should always feel proud of yourself for knowing what you want and taking steps to obtain it. So I hope you never regret anything that becomes such an important part of your journey, of finding happiness, and discovering who you are as a person. Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart.” ― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

Remember this when you feel like something is slipping away from you before you are ready to let go: the opportunities and people you lose along the way are the stepping-stones paving your way to your happiest self, your truest love, your most genuine purpose. What’s waiting for you on the other side of this pain and uncertainty will be worth all the stones in your path; and I promise you won’t want to change a thing about your journey once you see where it’s taking you. It’s a mess but it’s a beautiful one. That’s the thing about healing. The end result is beautiful but the process is anything but. Healing is messy. It is confronting, confusing, conflicting, yet completely transformative. There is no timeline, you will heal precisely when you are ready to. Don’t give up just as it gets messy, because that is when the real work is done. Be patient and gentle with yourself in the process. Tell yourself that it does get better, day by day, even if you can’t see it or feel it right now. Sometimes you need to reopen an old wound to make peace with it, to accept that it is a part of who you are, and to trust that it does not define where you are heading. Charlotte Freeman Sometimes you need to let go of the people you love because they do not want the same things as you. You are enough even when you don’t feel like it. Even on your darkest days, you know, the ones when you don’t even feel like getting out of bed, you’re enough on those days too. You are enough even when your heart has been hurt by someone you love and care about. You know those days when you stand in front of the mirror and don’t feel like yourself, you’re enough on those days too. When you’re exhausted, run off your feet, and didn’t finish everything you needed to do that day, you’re enough then too. You are enough. You always are and you always have been. Be kind to yourself. Today and always. Charlotte Freeman Don’t strive for perfection. Remember, mistakes are okay.If there was ever a time that you loved yourself too little, forgive yourself for accepting what you thought you deserved. Love yourself a little extra today and celebrate how far you have come, and how hard you have fought to get here. Promise yourself that you’ll never forget how you deserve to be loved, treated, and appreciated by others, and most importantly, by yourself. Charlotte Freeman Healing can be messy, but it’s deeply transformative and important. So stop wishing away the present moment, hoping for something better and be present and attentive to your surroundings. Our inattentiveness creates anguish and disappointment, because we’re certain when we get what we want, we’ll be happy. That said, and taking you at your word that he engenders fear, the only gentle way to inform him is not to actually inform him at all. Believe me, he is not interested in your dilemma, nor in noble or fawning words.

One approach is to use a go-between, such as an executive secretary if he has one. Without mentioning your surname, simply hand it to his secretary with the simple statement that this came to you by mistake. An administrative aide’s job is to know what preens and what ruffles a boss’s feathers, and to act accordingly. that your heart feels heavy, and you're not sure if you'll ever feel okay again. This was meant to find you when you cant quite Have you noticed when you hope for something, it seldom occurs as you expect? However, the moment you surrender, it makes its way into your life with little worry. Many people gravitate toward spirituality to seek religious-like understandings without the ideological constraints of institutional religion. The problem with making excuses to him, aside from wasting two persons’ time, is that you expose yourself unnecessarily. Do you think he will take any kind of contrived politeness as other than self-promotion? I wouldn’t. Neither would you.What is meant to be invites you to let go of the mental struggle that opposes the natural flow of life. you needed it most. This Was Meant To Find You When You Needed It Most is my second book and was written to resonate deeply with Life is not the source of your unhappiness, because reality constantly changes. When outside conditions are not to your liking you are less than satisfied. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or any means, electronic or mechanical, without prior written consent and permission from Thought Catalog.

If we consider the present moment as perfect, what is meant to be will find its way into your life effortlessly. This is Charlotte’s second collection of poetry, and this was meant to find you when you needed it most. You are more capable than you think.So, when a condition arises that does not match your mental picture, move into your heart and consider the greater lesson contained within the experience. sleep is all you need but its the hardest thing to do. This was meant to find you when you feel like youre carrying the weight of find the words to describe the way you are feeling at all. This was meant to find you on the days that you're struggling to see You’re allowed to say no if something doesn’t serve you. You’re allowed to say no if something doesn’t feel right. Don’t betray yourself for the sake of someone else’s happiness. Charlotte Freeman You are enough.